Hey Ladies,

It’s summer again, and maybe we did not stick to our New Year’s resolutions, maybe we did not lose those 30lbs we so desperately wanted to lose so we could look good in our daisy dukes, or riding on the back of our man’s bike or just to feel better about ourselves. We go out on a date w/ a guy, and during the date you notice that your man (date ) is looking at another womans’ BOOTY. What do you do?

This is a common issue that a lot of women face with their man. I am going to tell you what I would do and also give you some other things you can do.
First of all even if you did not lose that weight, even if you do not have that apple bottom booty that caught his attention, even if you are not the Diva you once were, no need to fret.

Do not get upset, that shows insecurity, and a hint of jealousy, and whether this is your first date or even if you are married I guarantee it is not the first booty he has looked at nor will it be the last. If your man did not want you he would not be out with you in public to begin with. You have to be secure enough about yourself to know that he is lucky to be with you just as you may be lucky to be with him. If you are a size 18, honey wear it proudly like you are an 8. (I’m a thick girl size 18, but you can’t tell me I am not the finest thing to walk the earth…they like that.)

I know I don’t have the biggest butt, and once I notice that my man looks at a girls booty, I don’t get upset I get him back.

Say we are walking down the street and I notice a girl with the kind of booty he usually looks at I’ll surprise him and say WOW, now that’s a BOOTY. It shocks him to either know that I know he looks, or now hes wondering if I am really attracted to this womans booty. Either way it can be a good thing.
If he knows that you are aware of it and you did not get upset he may try to be careful and not look when he is with you, or next time say look at her baby. (Thats a cool trust to have w/ your man)
If he thinks that you are attracted to her, it may turn him on, or it will stir up a whole new conversation about whether or not you had an experience in college, or if you have ever been in a threesome which diverts his attention from the big booty girl.

Think about it, we as women look at men. We might not look at them the way our men look at other women but it is our natural instinct to be attracted to the opposite (sometimes same) sex. Just because we look does not mean we want to have sex with them we could just be admiring there beauty or in this case BOOTY. That big booty girl may be looking at you and your man wishing she had a man on her arm. We all have a story just make it good.

If you have a comment or a question please feel free to email me.

Peace,

J.W.M.C