Men I CHALLENGE you, to a G – SPOT  mission.

 

Women can orgasm several different ways, via clitoral, vaginal, and of course the G-Spot, you need to figure out how to do it. We are going to discuss the G- SPOT TODAY. The G – Spot can give her a very satisfying orgasm if stimulated correctly.

 

Be patient for this can take a little time. Believe me it is worth it….

 

Okay a little G – SPOT knowledge first….. The name comes from a Dr. Grafenberg who wrote about this lovely part of a woman’s body back in the 50’s.

 

The G-Spot is, located about halfway between the back of the pubic bone and the top of a women’s cervix. The vagina has a top and bottom. We want the top of the vagina.

If you get to the cervix you have passed the G-Spot.

The size and location of the G-Spot will vary between women, but it usually lies about 1.5” to 3” inside the vagina.  (The middle finger works best)

You will feel some tissue that is rougher than the tissue around it.

I want you to explore this area, have your partner lie down, knees bent and feet flat on the floor or bed, with a pillow under her butt for comfort.

*Note you can stimulate the G-Spot w/your penis. I will share some positions for that in a few right now we are just trying to locate it.

Insert your fingers into her vagina towards her navel. Press with the fingers against the front wall of the vagina. You will need to apply a little pressure. When you finally hit the right spot, it will enlarge the same way your penis does.

Move your fingers from side to side. You will know when you hit the right spot due to her reaction.

 When you have found it move your fingers in even circles all around the inside of the vagina walls.

Stop rotating your fingers and rest your fingertips on the ridged area of the G Spot. Then move the fingers in and out and do rotational movements to keep hitting the spot.

You have to find out what she likes at this point. Do different things with your fingers but keep pressure on the G – Spot.

A G-spot vibrator with a curve may be a handy little gadget to whip out. Go the extra yard with your partner. Let her know that her reaching climax is important to you.

*Note you can stimulate the G-Spot w/your penis. I will share some positions for that in a few right now we are just trying to locate it.

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Does your penis curve?

 No need to fret my pet you can still reach her G – Spot. Especially if your penis curves upward, you should hit it w/ no problem. Just remember the G – Spot is only about 3’ to 4’ inches inside the vagina.

However if your penis curves to the left or the right, I got you…..

If your penis curves to the left, right or to the south, there are positions you can do which will allow you to stimulate the G – Spot. You need to be in a position where your penis points north.

Hence, if your penis curves to the side, you lie horizontally, she lies vertically and you gain the same impact and will be able to hit her G Spot.

If your penis curves downwards, place her on top of you but facing the other way, you will see her buttocks and then move to hit the G spot.

Another position is:  with you sitting on the edge of a bed, and your woman mounted on top of you, with her legs wrapped around your back. Put your penis in just deep enough to stimulate the G – Spot.  Use your pelvic area to press hard, no thrusting needed.

Another position is:  Have her lie on her side with one leg pulled up to her chest. You enter her from the back. You should be able to hit the G- Spot.

You can give your partner even more pleasure by licking her clitoris and stimulating her G-Spot at the same time, to give her an amazing orgasm.

*Note I keep telling you to apply pressure. The G – Spot responds to pressure rather than touch.

The G Spot is in women all you have to do is FIND it and stimulate it to give your woman GREAT pleasure.

As before if you find this article to be helpful in any way please leave a comment.

If you have any suggestions, please feel free to leave a comment.

 

Da Kinky Kid

 

 

Hey Ladies,

It’s summer again, and maybe we did not stick to our New Year’s resolutions, maybe we did not lose those 30lbs we so desperately wanted to lose so we could look good in our daisy dukes, or riding on the back of our man’s bike or just to feel better about ourselves. We go out on a date w/ a guy, and during the date you notice that your man (date ) is looking at another womans’ BOOTY. What do you do?

This is a common issue that a lot of women face with their man. I am going to tell you what I would do and also give you some other things you can do.
First of all even if you did not lose that weight, even if you do not have that apple bottom booty that caught his attention, even if you are not the Diva you once were, no need to fret.

Do not get upset, that shows insecurity, and a hint of jealousy, and whether this is your first date or even if you are married I guarantee it is not the first booty he has looked at nor will it be the last. If your man did not want you he would not be out with you in public to begin with. You have to be secure enough about yourself to know that he is lucky to be with you just as you may be lucky to be with him. If you are a size 18, honey wear it proudly like you are an 8. (I’m a thick girl size 18, but you can’t tell me I am not the finest thing to walk the earth…they like that.)

I know I don’t have the biggest butt, and once I notice that my man looks at a girls booty, I don’t get upset I get him back.

Say we are walking down the street and I notice a girl with the kind of booty he usually looks at I’ll surprise him and say WOW, now that’s a BOOTY. It shocks him to either know that I know he looks, or now hes wondering if I am really attracted to this womans booty. Either way it can be a good thing.
If he knows that you are aware of it and you did not get upset he may try to be careful and not look when he is with you, or next time say look at her baby. (Thats a cool trust to have w/ your man)
If he thinks that you are attracted to her, it may turn him on, or it will stir up a whole new conversation about whether or not you had an experience in college, or if you have ever been in a threesome which diverts his attention from the big booty girl.

Think about it, we as women look at men. We might not look at them the way our men look at other women but it is our natural instinct to be attracted to the opposite (sometimes same) sex. Just because we look does not mean we want to have sex with them we could just be admiring there beauty or in this case BOOTY. That big booty girl may be looking at you and your man wishing she had a man on her arm. We all have a story just make it good.

If you have a comment or a question please feel free to email me.

Peace,

J.W.M.C