Online dating is no longer a secret way to meeting people. Millions of people are subscribed to these dating services.

My mom met her husband at www.Blackplanet.com & my sister met her husband on Blackvoices.com

Now I have been and I still am active on at least Black planet.

I have found it a way to meet men that I would not normally meet going to the places that I frequent.

If you are looking for love, some quick ass, or just some friends in surrounding neighborhoods, you should look into Online dating.

No online dating site can promise that you won’t meet a stalker, goofy, sex addict, or in some cases crazy person. But believe me there are a lot of people just like you seeking fulfillment that are not psycho’s.

If you are new to online dating and dating websites, don’t be afraid. Online dating is just like going on a date from someone you met on the street. If they did not lie about there picture.

You can meet so many different peole in so little time.

Just think about it if you are an average looking guy How long does it take you to meet 4 attractive or even single women.

Well on these dating services sometimes you can meet up to 5 women in one day.

You can meet a number of people at your convenience. Not only that, but you’re totally in control of who you respond to, how often you respond to them, and when/if you will ever meet in person.Hope you have some money for all the dates.

Try it!

I did.

I actually like it.

I am on Blackplanet as Rerunz………

You can see if you can win me over.

Other Sites Include

True.com

Match.com

Truespice.com

Mate1.com

Now if this does not work for you don’t come complaining to me. I am just giving you some different outlets. The neighborhood bar is tired of seeing you.

To wrap it up I think online dating is a good thing. It’s straightforward, informative, and convenient.

What’s your Tale?

Share something with me whether it was a crazy date, an exciting new mate, a new sex position.

Tell me your Story  I would really like to hear it…….

What is a fetish / fetishist?

In medical terms, a fetish is strictly an object or part of the body which is required for sexual satisfaction. In medical terms, a fetishist is someone who cannot achieve arousal or satisfaction without the fetish object present.

Some fetishes are easier to accept than others. If you search on the internet you will come across a lot of fetishes you didn’t know existed. From the more usual objects and materials such as feet, lingerie, high heel shoes, rubber and leather to the more bizarre like balloons, cigarettes and bodily fluids.

Fetishists come from all areas of society. They are gay, straight or bisexual, black or white, male or female.

Fetishes are caused by a variety of things, (especially during childhood and puberty) and social factors. In the same way that some ’straight’ people do not enjoy oral or penetrative sex, so true fetishists have no control over their sexual preferences – they can’t say why they get turned-on by the sight of a manicured foot, they just do.

If your partner has a fetish that is damaging your relationship, you may need to either leave the relationship or talk about the fetish. If you have a fetish that is messing with your day to day life, you can get help. Just search on the internet for resources.

These are some of the most common FETISHES

Stomachs

Body piercing

Leather, rubber, vinyl, latex

Domination and submission

Feet and hands

Fingernails and lipstick

Braids, ponytails, pigtails

Water

Golden showers

Voyeurism and exhibitionism